Watch a video version on my Youtube Channel. What kind of life are you living? Whose life are you living? I spent the better part of thirty years not living my own. From the outside it looked normal, even good. Grow up, go to school, get a degree, get a job, buy a house, start a family, move into a nice neighborhood. I did the things that felt expected of me, without ever asking who was doing the expecting. That's the part that took me the longest to see. I wasn't just living